Dealing With a Break Up

When Katie and I were happily dating I had no idea I would need to learn how to get over being dumped. I always felt like I was the luckiest guy in the world to have Katie, all my friends were jealous of me. Then one day my whole world was shattered, she told me she didn’t want to be with me anymore.

When Katie dumped me I was miserable and humiliated. With a bit of time and know how, I did learn how to get over being dumped. I’ve made this list of things that helped me to get over the break up, maybe they can help you too.

When you get dumped, not only have you lost a relationship, but you also feel humiliated. It can be  soul destroying experience. The most important thing I learned about how to get over being dumped was not to blame myself. When me and Katie were dating I always felt like I wasn’t good enough to her. My confidence really took a hit when we broke up, I guess I thought I wasn’t good enough for anyone and that I would fail in all my future relationships.

I found some really good information in ebooks that helped me to learn that this wasn’t true. I couldn’t afford to spend a lot of money, but I bought some books between $15 and $50 that helped me to see that it wasn’t all my fault that we broke up. It was a big step for me in learning how to get over being dumped. Also, I learnt that it wasn’t because I wasn’t good enough for love or happiness. I think when you have been dumped you have to try and keep your head high.

If you want to know how to get over being dumped, you have to learn to lean on your friends and family for support. Even though it bored them immensely, I talked about my ex until the cows came home. One day, even I was sick of hearing it. That’s when I finally accepted that things were over between us, this was an important step to healing my heart.

Things started looking up and I thought I was well on the way to appreciating how to get over being dumped. One day Katie turned up on my doorstep. She said that she wanted me back. I could tell that she was drunk. I let her inside my apartment, she told me a story about how she lost her job. From the ebooks that I read I knew that Katie didn’t want me back, she just wanted the security she had felt in our relationship. I tried to be the best friend I could to her, but I told her that we had ended out relationship and both needed to move on.

The next morning I knew I had made the right decision. I felt really good, and something clicked inside of me. I had found out how to get over being dumped. For me it took time and knowledge. By learning about relationships, I could appreciate their value but also accept that they sometimes come to an end.

These days I am dating again and feeling pretty good about life. Now it is me who gives advice to friends about how to get over being dumped. I hope I have helped you as well.

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