Dealing With a Break Up

Breaking up is a situation when one between the two partners ditched another or the two of them both decides to quit when they find that their relationship is not working out. Telling you my experience when I broke up with Kathleen. I and Kathleen were in a relationship for two years and hold strong feelings for each other. Kathleen was a working lady and I met her in a coffee shop. No doubt she was the most stunning girl I had ever seen. On our first meeting when I looked at her she smiled like she also wanted to interact with me. So this gave me courage to step ahead and ask her for a relationship.

Kathleen was an independent lady and strong enough to handle her life on her own alone. She had moved to Central London few years back when she got the job. She and I became good friends and she offered me for a dinner the very next night. It was good for me as I already had decided to make up a relationship with her; you can say it was my first sighted love. Me and Kathleen spent nicest days of my life together hanging out, going on long drives and making things funny together.

As soon as I decided that we should commit in a relationship, I noticed a strange type of change in Kathleen’s attitude towards me. I was not coming to address that why she is doing all this to me when she ensured me that she was happy with me and we even made plans of our future life. We decided the number of babies and their names. One day I called her at her workplace and asked her to have lunch together today.

She came to the agreed place and after a while narrated me that she did not want to commit any relation so early and want me to move on as she had some compellations which were not allowing me to get engaged. I asked her to take some time and think about it and I even offered her that I wont ever force you for anything. She was not coming o the point o tell me why she could not continue with me. I understood that she had enough with me and now she wanted to quit. At that time I listened her calmly and went away. In this way I learnt how to live alone when someone dumped you whom you consider very close to your heart.